Great reflection! Some parts remind me of topics that Jordan Peterson used to bring up before falling into the cultural maxism hole. Also, The Left Hand of Darkness is a very interesting sci-fi story where Ursula Le Guin imagines an alien world where individuals can be female and male throughout different stages of their lives -- so they can both experience pregnancy and impregnanting someone else. It's very interesting also to see how she describes the way society is molded by that dynamic. Maybe we could bring this up now that reproductive technologies and gender identities are changing the status quo.